Changes After the Hajj Praise be to God who has chosen as well as pilgrim guests.

This is a gift of God is very big, where millions of Muslims who want to come to the holy land pilgrimage but still have not got permission from God, there were obstacles that come. The congregation has been getting all the ease of God so that they can complete the entire Manasik Umrah pilgrims from the start until tawaf Farewell, may God as a pilgrim who recorded mabrur forgiven us our sins and to pilgrims given protection and safety on the way back to their homeland, amen!
The scholars we mention the signs that mabrur pilgrims, including Imam Hasan al-Basri, vol saying: (a mabrur Hajj is that she came home from the pilgrimage became a zuhud in the world and love the life hereafter). Allah says which means: "And look for (the reward) in the Hereafter by what God has given to you, but do not forget your share in the world". (Surat al-Qasas: 77)

People who zuhud not mean people who only worship in the mosque and did not want to work for a living treasure for children and wife but people who do not zuhud enslaved by his wealth, the world may be in his hands not in his heart, its activity in the life of the world does not remember melalaikannya to God, prayers five times that in time, not decided
Hospitality, remain diligent study and practice Islam and mendaâwahkannya, do not forget the responsibility to educate his wife and children. People who zuhud people whose income is from a legitimate, not from the results renten, usury, bribery, corruption, stealing, gambling, Pungli, blackmail, cheat, consuming rights of others. May God grant us all the lawful sustenance, good and blessing and
excluded from any unlawful income, amen!

Anything else said pilgrimage among the mabrur sign is after returning from pilgrimage, he became better than before. Be better in terms of unity. If there is among pilgrims before the Hajj is like going to a herbalist to get wealth, children, partner, rapidly promoted and other pilgrims then after we repent to God and let
we leave it because the Prophet SAW said that means, "Whoever went to a fortune-teller or a shaman and justify what he said, is a kaafir to what has been revealed to Muhammad". (Narrated by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah, dishahihkan by Al-Albani in al-Irwa `no. 2006)

Any person who, before he hajj, like slaughtering a cow or another to serve as tumbal or offerings will now have to leave and slaughtering sacrifice to God only because God says what means: "So establish regular prayer for Rabbmu and berkorbanlah" (Surat Al-Kauthar 2) " Say prayers indeed, sesembelihanku, life and death for
God Rabbul Alamin no partner for him "(Surat al-An'am: 162)

Any person who before he hajj,  still believes horoscope then leave and put your trust in God alone. Any person who before Hajj masih mengkeramatkan kris and amulets, so now musnahkanlah all our amulets. Any person who before the Hajj still meruwat earth to avoid a disaster, so now repent and leave the ceremony
shirk it, bergantunglah to God because that could avoid disaster only God alone. Any person who before the Hajj is still cow mengkeramatkan issued every tenth of Muharram even scrambling to get stools that are considered to give a blessing, then know it is an act of shirk. Any person who before the Hajj still believe that bad luck
would happen to him if traveling on Tuesday or Saturday is to determine the time of marriage should be carefully calculated because if you do not fit the day will cause bad luck, then it is shirk. God does not forgive sins except shirk
if it did repent, Allah is the Recipient repentance. God forbid a paradise for those who do shirk. The
those who believe and confuse not mix their faith with them to get kesyirikan the security and guidance of Allah.

Let the repair pilgrims worship to God, praying five times should not be abandoned, charity and the Maal should be issued in the month of Ramadan shaum must be run. All the worship we conducted with the full sense of the love of God
who have given us countless blessings. We are ready to sacrifice wealth, our time and energy in order to reach the pleasure of Allah.

Let's fix our muamalah with parents who have given birth and educate us since childhood. Do not let us hurt them and should always serve and treat them with the best .. If our parents had died, let us always pray for them.

For the husband should improve muamalah with his wife do not easily upset and yelled his wife, if done wrong. Do the things that please the wife do not conflict with the Shari'a. Educate wife with advice, take it to the tribunal taâlim, bought books and tapes useful lecture. Educate also provide exemplary wife with the Prophet Muhammad
He said: "The best of you is the best to his family and I are the best amongst you to my family".

To fix muamalah wives with husbands who became obedient wife ..
Rasulullah SAW said: "If the woman is five-time prayers, fasting in the month of Ramadan, obedient to her husband and guard their chastity, then he go to Heaven from the doors wherever he wants".
Obedience to their husbands in the kindness just as for disobedience in this case there is no obedience to the creature in disobedience to God Al-Khaliq. When the new husband comes from work should not be greeted with a variety of problems and things that are unpleasant but welcome with a smile, Take food and drink and leave him to rest once only then tell all the problems that have undoubtedly husband was more ready to listen.

For parents fix the education of children, their future is the message which we will be asked to account at the end of the day. Educate them with a good example, they sekolahkanlah in a good place, watch their interaction. Always pray to God to protect and preserve them from all evil and bad because the parents prayer for their children, God willing, efficacious.

For the Muslim fix in terms of dress, you cover your private parts and not disclosed to the man who is not mahram. He said: "O Prophet, say to the wife-wives, daughters, and wives who believe, (that they should head out to the whole of their bodies). That is so much easier for them known, so they do not
disturbed. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful ". (Surat al-Ahzab: 59)
"Say to the believing women, let their gaze and guard their chastity, and let them show her jewelry, except that (usually) seen from him. And let them put a veil of cloth to her chest,
and do not show adornment except to their husbands or their fathers, their husbands or fathers, or their sons, or sons of their husbands, or their brothers, their men, or sons of brothers they , or the sons of their sisters, or Islamic women or slaves they owned, or the servants of men who have no desire (for women) or children who do not understand about her private parts. And let them not strike his foot to be known that they hide jewelry. And you all should repent to Allah, O men who believe that ye may prosper ". (Surat An-Nur: 31)

Rasulullah SAW said: "There are two groups of the population of hell that I had never seen them (before this), (first), a people who have whips like the cows he used to beat men and (two) women who dressed but naked walking berlenggak swing , their heads like a camel's hump, they do not go to heaven and not smell the smell of heaven heaven if it smelt of distance away so and so ". (Hadith Sahih, Muslim History) There are many women among the pilgrims dressed but naked, yet perfectly close the shame, there are still visible around her neck, her arms visible, close the private parts with tight clothing, forming a hollow body lekak, dressed with a thin material and transparent so that skin looks, in fact they were still naked and threatened not go to heaven.

Let the women pilgrims became aware after crying and begging God's forgiveness at the time wuquf at Arafat, if we repeat our sins?
Let the women pilgrims became a model for the Muslim in this country who are affected by morality and moral decadence, Educate our daughters to Muslim dress, nasehatilah them not out of the house with shorts, pants pants even more strict and stomach looks, innaalillahi wa innaa ilaihi rajiuun. Let the pilgrim dress up and primp women beautify themselves, but for whom? Not for the people outside the home but for her husband at home, the fact
that there are many of the Muslim dress when out of the house is forbidden by God when we love, God says: "And let you (the Prophet's wives) stay in your house and do not dress smartly and behave like a pagan people who
old. (Surat al-Ahzab: 33)

This paragraph applies also to all the Muslim and mukminah.
Rasulullah SAW said that a woman who went out of the house by using a perfume that smells of other men, verily he is a whore. Every day we pray for guidance to God, then it becomes obligatory for us to learn the streets of the guidance in the form of knowledge useful because many of the streets of the guidance that we have not known
than we already know. Do we think this is a new thing we heard, we are familiar with our customs and other excuses are not acceptable by the Shari'a. Allah says: "And when it is said unto them: Follow what Allah hath revealed they answered: No, but we just follow what we found from the (act) of our ancestors.
(Are they going to follow, too), although their ancestors did not know any one, and not guided? "(Surat al-Baqara: 170)
And His word: "And it is not permissible for a man in faith and not (also) for a believing woman, when Allah and the Messenger has determined a statute, there will be a choice for them (the other) about their affair. And whosoever disobeys Allah and the Messenger he is indeed false, false manifest. (Surat al-Ahzab: 36)